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So today I wanted to discuss labeling the wrong ones. When we see some ones face, the first thing we do is judge. I honestly dont think that is fair. I say that because you never know a person until you actually get to meet them. Sometimes we got to ask questions before we judge. We have to be mindful of that. I’m pretty sure you heard this a thousand times. “Never Judge A Book By Its Cover”……Well, that quote is true no matter who wrote it. In the world of lesbians, bisexuals, transgenders, Pansexuals, Queers, etc….WE ALL GET JUDGED NO MATTER WHAT….We get judged because of our sexuality and I feel like that is non sense. You know what else I feel like is non sense, judging our own kind. This is what I mean by “LABELING THE WRONG ONES”…….In 5, 4,3,2,1…….We put labels on each other. They are called studs, stems, femmes, no labels, and etc…….BOOOM!! I GOTCHA!! YOU ARE CAUGHT!! When we put a label on some one, we have to be mindful on how that might make the other person feel uncomfortable. You might look at a female and think she’s a “stud” when in nationality she’s really a “femme”. You get where I’m coming from now, dont you? Well, what does a stud look like? A stud is someone who dresses tomboyish. Well, what does a femme look like? A femme is someone who dresses really girly. Well, what does a stemme look like? A stemme is someone who dresses girly and tomboyish. Well, what does a no label look like? A no label dresses any old kind of way and doesnt label them self’s at all. That’s what I am. I PREFER TO BE CALLED A “NO LABEL”…..It makes things so much easier. But, people often mistake me as a stud because of the way I dress and short hair. Just because someone has short hair and doesnt dress girly does not I REPEAT does not make them a stud. PERIOD…….Some people could get really offended. I think we should all just stop labeling period and let every one be happy as who they are. Welp, this is my first discussion. SIMPLE RIGHT? Now, go right ahead and comment away. I need plenty of feedback. 1, 2, 3 GO!!!! 🌈



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10 thoughts on ““LABELING THE WRONG ONES” πŸŒˆ

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  2. I am visually impaired (registered blind but with some useful vision). I don’t like being labelled due to my disability, so can understand why you (and others) do not wish to be labelled owing to how you dress, your sexuality etc. Kevin

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