I see the word poly so much on these dating websites. What the hell does poly mean? Well let’s look it up…shall we? Poly this, poly that, what is it?
According to Merriam-Webster.com poly means “many: several: much: MULTI” Okay, so what does poly mean in sexual wise? According to Dictionary.com it stated “A polysexual person is someone who is sexually and/or romantically attracted to multiple genders”. This kinda has something to do with the LGBTQ+ Community. A female could be attracted to two other females at the same time. A guy could be attracted to two other guys at the same time. My question is, how could you love two people at once? How much love can you give out? You don’t think you’ll be drained out of love? So many questions I have to ask.
I personally wouldnt be able to handle two people at once. I sometimes cant handle one person. That’s the truth. What if the other person gets jealous? What if the other person feels left out? Questions, Questions, Questions but, no answers. I mean its some people who could handle this all on their own. You have to invest money into both of them. Isn’t that too much money? You go on dates after dates…..You have sex after sex……Isn’t that a bit much? What if both of them catch feelings? I feel like that’s hard because you are dealing with someone else’s emotions. What if your not emotionally attached to your other partner? You see where I’m going with this right? So, many people claim that they are poly but, could just be with both of them because of the sex. It’s okay to show your love, I’m not downing that. Just make sure you are not in it for the wrong reasons. Just make sure you are not hurting anyone by playing with their feelings. If you are guilty of this, you should probably only handle one.
I mean I guess you can also look at it like this…..You have two people right? If you dont get along with one, you still have the other. So, you wouldnt really be single. You’ll still be the lucky one. But, what if both of the partners are messing around with other people? How would you know? By, snooping around on their social media all day? Checking their phone? That situation could really get messy. You got STD’S that you need to think about. You know the biggest one is HIV…..You dont want that, now do you?
I personally think that everyone in this type of relationship should get checked on the same day. You get your results back on the same day as well. Better safe than sorry. Oh another thing, how would your family feel about this? What if they have a problem with it because it’s not the normal thing to do? You probably wont care right? I’m sure you wont. Oh wait, what if one partner brings up marriage? How are you going to handle that? Are you going to marry both of them? You can’t be the selfish one in this. You have to think its other people involved other than you and your spouses? You would have to be the one to explain this side of you to so many people. They are going to have questions. You do know that right? Some people are against it. I’m not against it. I just want to know more about it. Hopefully, I do meet some people who done it before. Would love to know you all thoughts on this? Share your thoughts in the comment section. See you there!! 👋👋