I personally never had any real LGBTQ+ friends. They were all straight which was very hard for me. It was hard for me because I couldn’t relate to them on a personal note. They didnt really understand the issues I was having with girls.
Dont get me wrong, they were awesome people. I eventually had to separate myself from them and so I did. I separated myself because I had to find myself again. I had to change my mindset towards things and figure out what a friend really was. (And so I did). I’ve been on this journey for almost a year. It feels good to be away from all those “so called friends”. I was around them 24/7. I needed a break. I finally found myself again. I realized I needed more LGBTQ+ friends.
I needed people who were exactly like me. No matter if they were lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer. It doesnt matter as long as we have some things in common. I would be so happy. I would be so happy because finding like minded friends would be a stress reliever. I haven’t found any yet. I always wanted a gay boy bestfriend. They are so fun to be around. How do I know? I used to have one back in my high school days. His name was Timothy. Me and Timothy was really close. But, he was always in a lot of drama. It used to make me mad. He hooked me up with a couple of girls back then. That was fun only for a certain amount of time. What I look for in a gay boy bestfriend?
I look for consistency. I look for some one who is positive. Some one who just wants to enjoy life and no drama. I look for someone who is very mature. Is that hard to find? Yes, it is very hard to find. On dating websites, I caught myself glancing at males profiles. But, it’s hard because you cant tell if they are gay or not. So, I just gave up. I know it’s some of them on those dating websites. I just stopped looking that’s all. I dont want that many friends. Only just a few and that’s it. I say that because I’m some what of an introvert. (Definitely not an extrovert)…..
So, my question is, where are my LGBTQ+ friends? They are probably some where out having fun. I’m just sitting in the house. I’m more of a homebody. I dont do much but work and come home. I’m sure I’ll find them soon. What’s your take on this? Comment in the comment section below. See you there!! 👋👋