I’ve heard this saying in my high school days. That saying was “You Are Not Gay”. Basically, telling some one that they are not gay because of the things they do or did. I honestly hate this saying with a passion.
People in high school used to tell me that “You Are Not Gay” because I used to mess around with guys as well. It used to make me so mad. They used to say I was confused. It used to make me mad because, how can you tell some one that they are not gay? They used to also tell me that I was saying I was gay for attention. My thing is, how could some one be gay for attention? That doesnt even make since. What if they are really gay? I will be honest, I was messing around with guys in high school. But, that doesnt mean that I wasnt gay. Maybe I didnt know myself fully until now. Sometimes it takes time for people to realize that they are actually gay. I used to flirt with my friends in high school. Of course, they didnt like it because they actually weren’t gay.
You cant just tell some one what they are. You dont know their experiences until they tell you. You might think you know some one when turns out you dont. So, just be mindful of what you tell some one what they are. You have a lot of nerve to do so. What’s your take on this? Do you think its right for some one to tell somebody else “You Are Not Gay”? Comment in the comment section below. See you there!!! 👋👋