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Do you like clubbing or dancing? Do you like having good and tasty drinks. Well, I think this is the club for you. If you are located in Chicago. This club always gets good ratings. No matter what. They have good bartenders and great music.

I’ve been to this club a couple times and really enjoyed myself. This is a gay bar just to inform you. By reading the reviews some people dont know that this is a gay bar until they walk in. Jeffery Pub is really accepting of the LGBTQ+ community. If you are thinking about taking your friends out late night, try the Jeffery Pub. You will be surprised. A good amount of people come here as well. 🌈🌈

Public Reviews From Google

  • Edna Hill “First time being at Jeffery Pub in 20 years. I was pleasantly surprised. Clean, comfortable and kind staff”
  • Juliet Davis “Best drink ever music host ever”
  • Teaunto Stephans ” Very beautiful decor excellent cocktails great music”
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Introductory to “LGBTQ+ Discussions”

Welcome to “OUR” blog. By “OUR” this is my blog and yours. LGBTQ+ Discussions will be focused on our community and nothing outside of it. We will discuss serious topics such as relationships, friendships, family, situationships, dating websites and more. This blog will not create any negativity well maybe just on the reviews. Their will be posts daily and I hope to gain some fantastic readers. I hope to gain some fantastic readers that will actually engage. By engaging, I mean reading, liking, commenting, and sharing. When we engage with each other, it makes life so much fun and easier to deal with. Even though we our online, think of it as a conversation in person.

Let me explain each topic in depth.

Topic #1 Relationships

In this topic,

We will discuss relationships such as intimate relationships with our partner, relationships within our families, and outside relationships such as work, friends, etc….. We will discuss how to keep a relationship, what is a relationship, developing and so much more.

Topic #2 Friendships

This is the friendships topic. We will discuss things similar to relationships. We will discuss how to make friends, what is a friend?, how many friends should you have and more. Friendships and relationships could both go in different area of aspects. So, just be prepared. (In a good way)

Topic #3 Family

This is the family topic. We will discuss how to come out to our family, family members accepting your partner, how well your family supports you and etc. This topic can get really deep.

Topic #4 Situationships

This topic is situationships. We will discuss what are situationships, how to deal with them or how to come out of them. Situationships can be really hard to come out of . That’s why I want to discuss this one.

Topic #5 Dating Websites

As you can see in my previous post “My Shitty Review on “TAIMI”. We will discuss how to be safe on dating websites, how to not get catfished, etc…. I will also do more reviews. They might be a little negative but, that’s the only thing that will be negative.

More Topics Will Include

Mental Health Such As

  • Major Depressive Disorders
  • Psychosis
  • Schizophrenia
  • Bipolar Disorder

This is basically an outline on what will be upcoming on “Our” blog. I hope that you are at least a little interested. LGBTQ+ Discussions will be the next and upcoming blog out there. I will promote it to the tea.

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My Shitty Review On “TAIMI” 🤷‍♀️


A random person on “HER” which is a dating app. They recommended an app called “TAIMI”. I’m not sure if any of you heard of it but, I’m sure you have. “TAIMI is a social networking, and dating app that caters to all LGBTQ+ people”. According to wikipedia. From my own experience, I haven’t had any luck. No one responds to my messages nor no one knows how to hold a conversation. I always end up finding people far away. That really irks my nerves. I dont know if I’m just having bad luck or other people are experiencing this. What does this all sound like to you? Of course, this sounds like all the other dating apps that we have. Dating apps such as HER, POF (PLENTY OF FISH), TINDER, HINGE, BUMBLE, OKCUPID, ETC….. Just to name a few. Now, since these apps are only showing people who are far away. More people are starting to become “open-minded” to the long distance relationships. I guess that’s a good thing but, for some people it’s not. It’s not because some people prefer their partner to be close to them. I truly could understand that. This is kind of a negative review. I know I said that it wouldn’t be anything negative on this blog. I honestly just had to get this off my chest. Sorry guys, just ahead of time. I apologize to the people created the app “TAIMI”. I’m trying to have faith in this new dating app. But, guess what? I’m not the only one. Maybe just maybe, if we had more options in our areas. Everything would workout perfectly fine. But, in the “real world” that’s not how it works. We have to suffer. I just feel like we shouldn’t. Also, another issue I have with “TAIMI”, is that we have to pay or be on some type of subscription. If the subscription ends, we cant use the special features that they have. I thought that since this was a new and upcoming dating app. It would be different. But, nope I was wrong. It’s just like the rest. In all honestly, I have paid for this app and Tinder. I only paid because I am seriously looking. I just wouldnt recommend it. It’s just like the rest of them. But, if you want, shoot your shot (like they say) and try to make that basket. (Hopefully you caught on to that). 🤣🤣🤣

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So today I wanted to discuss labeling the wrong ones. When we see some ones face, the first thing we do is judge. I honestly dont think that is fair. I say that because you never know a person until you actually get to meet them. Sometimes we got to ask questions before we judge. We have to be mindful of that. I’m pretty sure you heard this a thousand times. “Never Judge A Book By Its Cover”……Well, that quote is true no matter who wrote it. In the world of lesbians, bisexuals, transgenders, Pansexuals, Queers, etc….WE ALL GET JUDGED NO MATTER WHAT….We get judged because of our sexuality and I feel like that is non sense. You know what else I feel like is non sense, judging our own kind. This is what I mean by “LABELING THE WRONG ONES”…….In 5, 4,3,2,1…….We put labels on each other. They are called studs, stems, femmes, no labels, and etc…….BOOOM!! I GOTCHA!! YOU ARE CAUGHT!! When we put a label on some one, we have to be mindful on how that might make the other person feel uncomfortable. You might look at a female and think she’s a “stud” when in nationality she’s really a “femme”. You get where I’m coming from now, dont you? Well, what does a stud look like? A stud is someone who dresses tomboyish. Well, what does a femme look like? A femme is someone who dresses really girly. Well, what does a stemme look like? A stemme is someone who dresses girly and tomboyish. Well, what does a no label look like? A no label dresses any old kind of way and doesnt label them self’s at all. That’s what I am. I PREFER TO BE CALLED A “NO LABEL”…..It makes things so much easier. But, people often mistake me as a stud because of the way I dress and short hair. Just because someone has short hair and doesnt dress girly does not I REPEAT does not make them a stud. PERIOD…….Some people could get really offended. I think we should all just stop labeling period and let every one be happy as who they are. Welp, this is my first discussion. SIMPLE RIGHT? Now, go right ahead and comment away. I need plenty of feedback. 1, 2, 3 GO!!!! 🌈


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